Just goes to show ya that you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Last night after a particularly frustrating day (hmm, more like week), I went upstairs to find the tiniest, sweetest rose bush on my dresser along with a card. Check out what was inside~ See, aren't you saying "Awwwww" about now? Well, some people might be saying, "That's so sweet, I'm getting a cavity". I was in the "Awwwww" camp myself. Felt a little Sixteen Candles to me; all passing notes in class, only no one was asking me if I'd do it with Jake Ryan (come on, you know you would've).
Deciding to love someone unconditionally, boost them up, edify them isn't always easy because honestly, they don't always deserve it. In turn, neither do we. Love is a verb though, not a noun and following through by loving him in ways that he identifies with feels better than nagging him to get what I want or need. I tell you this though~it feels a heck of a lot better when I find something like this lying on my dresser. Now he's loving me in ways I identify with!